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Are You Upset At Your Ex For Having A New Girlfriend/Boyfirend Because You Love Them Or Because Your Ego Was Hurt?

Often people break up without any closure, therefore, lingering questions and curiosity is always present. Why do you think many, both women and men, become so upset when their ex’s gets a new boyfriend or girlfriend? Is it love? Highly doubtful. In fact, the cause of becoming so upset and distraught with an ex’s new union stems out of a hurt ego; not love in any way, shape or form.

Perhaps, you’ve been tracking your ex’s moves. Who he/she dates, talks to, goes out with, etc. This is just a sign of needed closure. Also, a sign that you quite haven’t moved on, but it’s certainly not a sign of someone that is still in love. If you were so in love with this “supposed” ex, you’d be trying to win their love back instead of stalking them.

Once you learn to how to distinguish the difference between a broken heart and a hurt ego, you’ll be a much happier person. You won’t feel so upset that your ex has moved on. You won’t feel compelled to check their FaceBook, Twitter or any other social network. You’ll stop making your ex the topic of most of your conversations. Slowly, but surely they’ll be put on the back burner until they finally become something of the past.

Sadly, sometimes, we cannot get the closure we so much desire. Life isn’t always fair. But either way, closure or no closure, if you’re upset about an ex having a new main squeeze it’s your ego messing with you and “boy” can your ego be an eternal, royal pain in the ass, but it’s not anything you can’t fix or re-evaluate so that you can successfully go on your merry way.

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5 Moves That Make You Girlfriend Material Part #2

Meet Locals blog is back with 5 Moves That Make You Girlfriend Material Part #2 as we promised. As you may have already read in this article’s first installment- looks aren’t all. Sure, they shouldn’t be put on the back burner but no need to go broke when you can touch his heart and soul with sexy yet generous and genuine moves that will rock your guy’s world and make you the perfect, girl material he’s been looking for.

Here are next 5 Moves That Make You Girlfriend Material:

  • – Make Him a Killer Meal.

Sure, it’s the oldest trick in the book but this one always seems to work like a charm. Instead of going out for dinner, stay in and whip him a killer meal he’ll never forget, following with desert; Which preferably should be you…

  • – Tone Down Your Make-Up Ritual.

He wants to see what you really look like. If you always have 3 layers of makeup on, he’ll begin wondering why. Most men appreciate a girl that can be natural.

  • – Pay Attention To Your Guy.

It’s not just about paying attention to your guy but caring about the small things as well. He wants to know that you have his back no matter what. Being a good listener is key!

  • – Speak Your Mind.

While your guy desires a sweet girl, he also, likes a woman that’s also capable of taking a stand and speaking her mind. If there’s something that’s bothering you, let him know.

  • – Show Off Your Assets.

While everything does not revolve around how hot you are. You must remind your guy what a sexy girl he has by him, as you rock some leggings and nice shoes.

The tips above conclude this installment of Meet Locals Blog in which we share cool tips to “wow” your guy and make you the precise, girlfreind material he dreams of. As you can see, these are things that can easily be accomplished as you rock your sunny disposition attached to your good looks and your confidence of freely and honestly expressing your true emotions.

Try out these moves and lets us know how they worked out for you. Be sure to drop your comments here at Meet Locals Blog. Tune in regularly for updates on relationship advice and online dating tips.

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10 Ways To Seduce Your Guy Part #3

Meet Locals Blog is back to close off the weekend with 10 more ways in which you can seduce your guy. We’ve already released, 10 Ways To Seduce Your Guy Part #1 &  Ways To Seduce Your Guy Part #2 and now we have our 3rd and final list bumping with tons of sexy and easy ways to seduce your guy and have him melt at the very sight or thought of you.

10 Ways To Seduce Your Guy Part #3:

  • 1. If you have opaque shower curtains, switch them to a clear one. Call your guy in while you soap up your breasts. Most likely he’ll jump in right with you.
  • 2. When having a drink with your man, scoop an ice cube off his drink and drop it down your shirt/blouse and ask him to look for it. He’ll never want to go for a dive like this ever again!
  • 3. When you arrive home, strip off your clothes but leave your high heels or stilettos on as you prance around, discarding of garments and accessories and picking up as you go along. Before you even realize it he’ll be drooling.
  • 4. On your way back home from an outing ask him to enter an address into the GPS, specifically the address to a sex toy store. Of course, don’t reveal where you are going yet. He’ll be utterly stoked once he arrives and sees that he might have some fun in stored for the rest of the night.
  • 5. Ask your guy to hand you something from inside your purse in which he’ll discover your dirty little book with awesome sex moves. He’s going to be dazzled.
  • 6. Before snuggling next to your guy on the couch for some Tv and relaxation time, slip into one of his over sized  buttoned shirts with nothing else under. Surely, you can say goodbye to relaxation as well as the buttons on the shirt in exchange for some passionate love making.
  • 7. Tell your lover boy that you’re going out with some girlfriends for some drinks but instead take a pole dancing class. When you get back home, tell him what you’ve really been up to and moreover, show him the sexy routine you’ve learned. He’ll be completely blown away!
  • 8. While going around town with your guy, taking care of mundane errands, take the time to discreetly graze him with your butt on his package area very purposefully.
  • 9. When you want “it” be bold and ruthless, if you will…? Grab his hand and place right between your legs and give him a “I want you right now look.” He’ll love the boldness.
  • 10. If you do Yoga, do it naked. Wake up one morning before he does and begin your yoga routine completely in the nude. When he wakes up, he is going to wake up to a sight that will knock the wind out of him!

So, there you have it. We sure hope you like this installment of 1o Ways To Seduce Your Guy. Again, they’re simple ways of always surprising your guy with sexy moves that will always leave him in awe. Sex isn’t everything in a relationship, but it sure does make things much more peachier. We encourage all you gals out there to go out of your way just a tad to “wow” your guy. He’ll be charmed, impressed and wanting you more than ever. It’s always worth putting a little extra out there for your loved one instead of settling in some safe and monotone state. Get wild!

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Top 5 Tips To Keeping The Spark Alive In Your Relationship After Kids

Being a mother of two small children, I know how easy it is to allow the day to day distractions to come in the way of ™your relationship or marriage. While this may not be a big deal if it only happens on occasions it is a HUGE issue when it becomes a part of daily life. All too often after a couple moves in together and especially after they have children things begin to change. This change may take place little by little or seem to happen over night. Either way these changes usually lead to one or both partners feeling neglected and as if the ‘spark’ in the relationship has died out.  Read the rest of this entry »

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Things Men Do or Think About But Will Never Admit

Men are design with a high sense of pride. It’s because of this pride and male ego that they feel the need to come across as rough and manly. Men hate having to show any sign of weakness, which is why they keep many things to themselves. They think that by admitting some of these things, it would somehow hurt their image and they way we look at them. If only they would realize that by opening up more, it would actually make us look at them as being even more of a man to be able to admit the truth.

  • They obsess over whether their penis is bigger then your ex’s.
  • They wonder whether they really satisfy you in the bedroom.
  • They are more into you then they will ever let on.
  • They really don’t mind watching some of those girly flicks and TV shows that they complain about.
  • They suck in their gut when undressing in front of you the first several dozen times.
  • They’ve thought about which one of your sisters and or girlfriends they’d sleep with if they “had” to.
  • They masturbate more then they’ll ever admit.
  • They don’t want to pick up the check as often as they do.
  • They obsess over their pimples just as much as the ladies do.
  • They still talk too and or think about an ex from their past.
  • They like to cuddle and like using cute little pet names.
  • They acknowledge other guys looks
  • If they have seen one of your ex’s they have compared themselves to them.

Ladies, no matter what a guy tells you, he doesn’t want to know about your past sexual partners. If they ask you where they are placed on your sexual chart, the only except able answer is “they’re your best!”. Never let it be known that you’ve had a bigger penis. Don’t let them know how wild your sexual past has been. Its better to just let them think or assume that you’re a saint and that they were the ones who were able to bring you out your shell. Yes, they realize you aren’t a virgin but they simply can’t handle knowing the true details. Don’t even discuss how many sexual partners you’ve had. Most people lie about the number and there is no good answer. The past is the past, leave it behind you!

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4 Topics To Impress A Woman

It is widely known that women love to talk about everything, while men not so much. If you want to ensure some kind of future date you better start learning how to converse with a woman. There are plenty of topics to talk about, but there are only a few that will you get brownie points for.

4 Topics To Impress A Woman:

1. Your Career/Job: Women like hearing about how the guy they are seeing or dating work went for the day or week. Discuss what you do and anything that went on for you during your work day. Even if you are not working at your dream job yet tell her about your future career plans and what you would like to achieve.

2. Your Childhood: Women love hearing about your past, especially your childhood. It gives them a sense that they can know you better and relate to you on a more personal level.

3. Your Future Plans: Discuss any future plans that you have whether they are about a dream house you want to purchase, a career change/improvement, or if you are further on in the relationship discuss about your plans of getting married. Sharing the same long term goals and interests makes the relationship grow stronger.

4. Compliments/Appreciation: Telling the women that you are into that you truly appreciate her and giving heartfelt compliments will really win you over. As well as letting her know that you are there for here.

Implementing these topics in your conversational log with truly impress any woman your are dating or in a relationship with.

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3 Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Feel Special

Its all about making your partner happy nowadays. Men love having their women give them compliments and make them feel special. There are some very simple ways you can accomplish this. Here are the 3 Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Feel Special:

1. Act jealous every so often. Not crazy jealous, but once in awhile do so (even if you are not the jealous type). It shows you care enough and dont want anyone else to have him.

2. If you catch someone checking him out, let him know. This will make him feel that he still got it. Dont do it too often because you dont want him to get overly confident.

3. Most men love working with power tools. Every once in awhile ask him to mount, fix, or hang something.

These are very simple ways to make him feel special. It is important in any relationship that both parties feel appreciated and special often. This is what makes the relationship strong and long lasting. Good luck!!!

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