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Top 5 Casual Sex Adult Dating Tips

As human beings we love getting attention whether it is from an ex or a random person we met at the bar. Those oh so sexual feelings always arise when you are tempted by someone you find attractive. You might want to act on impulse, but remember there are boundaries and rules to follow in the casual sex dating world that all must follow. Here are some tips that will help you make the best of your one night stand or casual sex dating life.

Top 5 Casual Sex Adult Dating Tips:

Tip #1: Be Honest

This is probably one of the most important tip there is. You need to simply be honest with the other person and let them know what your intentions are. Let the person know if this will only be a one night type thing or if you want to have sex a few times a week. Whatever it might be just say what you want. No need to lead anyone on and potentially hurt that person.

Tip #2: Donít Meet Up Everyday

If you are going to start shacking it up every day the excitement of casual sex begins to wear down and you might feel like you are developing some other type of relationship you are not willing to have. Or either party might develop feelings due to the stability of your sex relationship. Keep your meeting ups separately and spur of the moment.

Tip #3: Itís All In Good Fun

Donít take this casual sex thing too seriously. The reason you are having casual sex in the first place is to have fun and enjoy all the naughty things you do with a person. There is no need for fancy dinners or trying to impress one another with intellectual conversations. Just get down to business.

Tip #4: No Spending The Night

Spending the night at each otherís places just sets the tone of intimacy. That is not what this whole casual sex dating is all about. Most people love to cuddle, but it is not recommended during this type of relationship. If you think you can handle not developing feelings, then go for it.

Tip #5: Discuss Boundaries (If Any)

If you want the casual sex to be exclusive between you and your sex partner you have to make that known. Most people do not like sharing their loverís with other people. If there are any other boundaries you feel that would make you comfortable then donít hold it back. It is better to be open and discuss everything before any hurt ache can occur in the future.

Casual sex dating is definitely not for everyone; especially if you are a jealous person by nature. Both parties have to remember why they are doing it. They enjoy sex without the commitment. Make sure to pick your casual sex partner careful and always use protection.

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Are You Texting Your Guy “Too” Much?

The problem with phones now is not “calling too much” but “texting” too much.” Some people can’t imagine how it can become annoying or bothersome, but it can become both of these things. Sure you can ignore texts a tad easier than phone calls. But maybe your guy has something pending. Maybe he’s waiting for an important text from work with important info and you keep interrupting with your texts that although “cute,” are starting to become somewhat of a problem.

How do you know if your texting your guy too much? Well, I personally like my guy to be straight up and tell me what’s bothering him and he has no problem telling me. But not all guys are like that, because they don’t want to upset you.

Here are some things that are okay and some that aren’t when you’re texting:


  • – Don’t text your boyfriend/husband while he’s working to let him in on the latest gossip about your crazy girlfriend.
  • -Don’t text him about his own “business,” giving him unwanted advice and such. Instead do this the night before when it doesn’t feel as intrusive.
  • -Don’t text him because you’re mad at the kids and there’s chaos at home. More likely than not it’s chaotic where he’s at. Wait until he gets home and then you can both unload on each other.
  • -Text with a specific a specific purposes. Don’t text him with “OMG” this or that. Men don’t really understand that and don’t really see the point in it.


  • -Do text your guy if there’s a legitimate emergency such as a medical emergency.
  • -Do test your gut once a day and just say “I love you.”
  • -Text him if something incredible has happened either at work or at home. Like a big accomplishment like with the kids or big job promotion. They like to hear about these type of things since they like to share their accomplishments with you, too.
  • -If he’s your boyfriend and you’ve been sleeping for the past few nights together but now you’re not, be sure to text him “Good Night.” He’ll love it, it’s simple and to the point and it shows that you miss having him by your side.
  • -Text him if he forgets something at home and he’s still close by so can hurry back home and scoop it up. He’ll be eternally grateful.

So here are a few tips of texting dos and don’ts, they’re left kind of vague, but you should be able to get the picture. Basically, don’t text him while at work with nonsense or things that can wait. Do text him with valid points that he would want to know and text with short and endearing messages.

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Fashion Tips For Men: How To Dress For A First Date

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Lets be honest, everyone wants to look their best and make a good first impression. Men need and want to feel and look good just as badly as the ladies do. However, most guys don’t thinking spending hours getting ready, trying on 10 different outfits sounds like a bunch of fun. Men typically will get up and thrown on the first clean/comfy outfit they can find and run out the door. This may be ok if you’re just going to the store or to play video games at your “boys” house, but, not when you’re going on a date.

Lets face it, the way you dress is a representation of yourself. By taking the time to choose the right outfit on a first date you show your date you care. Men have it much easier then women do so be grateful for that. Keep in mind that your appearance is the first thing anyone notices. Below you will find some helpful tips to keep you looking your best.

~ Keep in mind where you will be going on the date so you can dress appropriately.

~ CLEAN! Everything should be clean with NO holes or stains and as wrinkle free as possible. I mean EVERYTHING that includes not only your shirt and pants but also includes your shoes, socks, and under clothing.

~ Stay away from flashy clothing and anything with big print or large name brand labels.

~ It is better to go with a dress shirt then a t-shirt. If you are worried about being over dressed you can wear a dress shirt with nice pair of jeans. Let me say that again, a NICE pair of jeans!

~ Don’t over do it with the hair products, cologne or jewelry.

~ If possible avoid buy a new outfit so you don’t come across as trying to hard and won’t end up being uncomfortable.

~ Stick to more natural colors such as tans, browns, blues, blacks etc. A first date is not the time to pull out the flashy right pink shirt you love.

~ No hats unless you’re going to a game. Hats make women think you are hiding something.

~ Wear nice shoes! It has been proven many times that one of the first things a woman checks out is a man’s shoes.

~ If you are wearing jewelry make sure it’s clean and that your watch is working and tells the right time.

Before you head out the door make sure you double check that you don’t have any stains on your clothes. Always bathe and brush your teeth before a date. Personal hygiene is so very important and says a lot about you. By wearing a dress shirt and slacks or jeans it makes it easy for you to dress it up or take it down a notch.

Need to dress it up: Have a tie and a blazer handy just incase.

Need to dress it down: Undo the first button or two (don’t over do it) and roll up the sleeves. (Do it neatly so you don’t end-up looking a mess.)

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Top 3 Best South American Summer Trips For 2011

Do you want to explore the perfect Latina America vacation spots of 2011? It is true that summer will be ending soon, but that doesnít mean that you canít enjoy a few more outstanding trips for this year. These places will be perfect to spend some alone time with your partner or find single women or men.

Top 3 Best South American Summer Trips For 2011:

1. Azores, Portugal: This extremely remote location, which is about a thousand miles west of continental Portugal, and consists of nine major islands. These islands are completely untouched with natural beauty and very limited tourist traffic. During the summer the islands are connected by ferry service which will take you from island to island so that you may view the green volcanic mountains, mineral hot springs, hydrangea-covered hills, vineyards, historic seaside towns, and much more. Sao Miguel, the biggest island, includes Ponta Delgada (the Azoresí largest city), secluded black and white sand beaches, and natural steam vents ovens at Furnas Lake where the Portuguese stew (cozido) is cooked in earthen pots buried along volcanic shoreline. This place is PURE paradise.

2. Roatan, Honduras: This is a diversí paradise, which is located about 30 miles north of Honduran mainland, where you can enjoy the sites of a living coral reef and tropical marine life. There is Roatan Marine Park, Anthonyís Key resort which guests can participate in government sanctioned recreational and education dolphin programs, and Mango Creek Lodge which guests can rent an over the water, thatched roof cabana that is absolutely breathtaking.

3. Patagonia, Argentina: If you want to skip the fall season straight to winter then this is the perfect spot for you. The Southern Andes is one of the worldís highest mountain ranges and offers tourists many different winter activities such as snowboarding, glacier and glade tree skiing, and beginner to expert downhill terrain. If you want one of a kind view then you must bunk at Correntoso Lake & River Hotel where you can see the snowcapped Patagonian Andes and glacial Lake Nahuel Huapi right at your hotel window.

These are some of the most beautiful and adventurous places that you can visit in South America. Book your flight and hotel today! Enjoy the last several weeks of summer somewhere breathtaking.

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Things Men Do or Think About But Will Never Admit

Men are design with a high sense of pride. It’s because of this pride and male ego that they feel the need to come across as rough and manly. Men hate having to show any sign of weakness, which is why they keep many things to themselves. They think that by admitting some of these things, it would somehow hurt their image and they way we look at them. If only they would realize that by opening up more, it would actually make us look at them as being even more of a man to be able to admit the truth.

  • They obsess over whether their penis is bigger then your ex’s.
  • They wonder whether they really satisfy you in the bedroom.
  • They are more into you then they will ever let on.
  • They really don’t mind watching some of those girly flicks and TV shows that they complain about.
  • They suck in their gut when undressing in front of you the first several dozen times.
  • They’ve thought about which one of your sisters and or girlfriends they’d sleep with if they “had” to.
  • They masturbate †more then they’ll ever admit.
  • They don’t want to pick up the check as often as they do.
  • They obsess over their pimples just as much as the ladies do.
  • They still talk too and or think about an ex from their past.
  • They like to cuddle and like using cute little pet names.
  • They acknowledge other guys looks
  • If they have seen one of your ex’s they have compared themselves to them.

Ladies, no matter what a guy tells you, he doesn’t want to know about your past sexual partners. If they ask you where they are placed on your sexual chart, the only except able answer is “they’re your best!”. Never let it be known that you’ve had a bigger penis. Don’t let them know how wild your sexual past has been. Its better to just let them think or assume that you’re a saint and that they were the ones who were able to bring you out your shell. Yes, they realize you aren’t a virgin but they simply can’t handle knowing the true details. Don’t even discuss how many sexual partners you’ve had. Most people lie about the number and there is no good answer. The past is the past, leave it behind you!

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Top 5 Things To Do In August

As we approach almost the ending of the month, there’s still† a little time to do the Top 5 things in August, which includes a variety of things from music, movies, books and Art exhibits. Surely there’s some good times guarantee. Explore these August “must do’s” and see what you fancy best.

August’s Top 5 things to do are:

  • 1- Get your first Brazilian music album.

You may want to consider purchasing Sao Paulo‘s new dance album, “La Liberacon.” If you love to dance, you’ll surely love this album for it promises infectious tunes.

  • 2- Go watch “The Help,” starring Emma Stone.

The Help,” is based on Kathryn Stockett’s best selling novel. It’s a feel good movie that’s also sad, moving but with a happy ending. Great performances from the cast. A definite “must watch.”

  • 3- Read “Starting From Happy,” by Patricia Marx.

“Starting From Happy” was written by former SNL writer: Patricia Marx. This romantic novel is composed of 618 small chapters in which a lingerie designer and a geeky scientist meet fall for each other. It’s written in a Twitter-like format. It’s definitely unique, refreshing and very cute.

  • 4- Celebrate “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off” 25th Anniversary.

Either watch this 80’s classic movie or extend the celebration by calling in sick to work and have a “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off” marathon. Ferris Bueller will always bring out the fun in you.

  • 5- Go to SHROOMFEST in Telluride, Colorado.

Spread the spores. SHROOMFEST is all about anything and everything fungi. There will be workshops, performing arts (“Magic Mushroom” skits) & cooking demos.

It’s not too late to catch up on the Top 5 things to do in August. You have a little over a week to do a couple of these cool things or maybe you can do them all especially if you’re in Colorado. Rock this year’s August by trying out these August top 5 things to do/try. Have a blast!


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Four “New” Must Read Books

These four new books are definite “must reads.” They’re the type of books that hook you right around the first chapter and “one” must continue reading just to see what happens next. These are great reads for those who suffer from insomnia. There isn’t a better cure for insomnia than a good read. It keeps your mind occupied as sleepiness slowly creeps in, though you’ll find yourself fighting it because the books are just too great.

Here’s a the list of the four new books that you must just give a try, surely you’ll be hooked:

  • 1. “The Night Circus,” by Erin Morgenstern.

It’s an enchanting book about two magicians in a Victorian carnival who fall in love. Of course, danger lurks about.

  • 2. “Girls in White Dresses,” by Jennifer Close.

This is Jennifer Close’s first novel which follows three best friends through their struggles with love and life all around. It takes place in a college in Manhattan.

  • 3. “This Beautiful Life,” by Helen Shulman.

This novel explores the possible terrors of the Digital Age. It’s a gripping portrait of a seemingly happy New York City family when their lives unravels when a provocative video of a teen goes viral.

  • 4. “Beautiful Unbroken,” by Mary Jean Nealon.

Beautiful Unbroken is a breath taking memoir about the life of a nurse. This book will capture you and hook you within the first pages of reading it.

Next time you’re at the book store or online looking to purchase a good, gripping read, make sure to look these up. These new four books most definitely books that will have you “hooked” in no time. Not only are these great reads just for the mere experience but also, to add to your book collection. You’ll only gain another gripping book that may come in rather handy on a sleepless night. Be sure to check them out!

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