Archive for July, 2011

Top 5 Fun Date Ideas

Coming up with different date ideas can be challenging. No one wants to keep doing the same boring dinner and movies date. The list of date ideas can be used for a first, second, or third date. Actually, you can go wrong with these ideas on any date.

Top 5 Fun Date Ideas:

1. Take A Dance Class: Even if she doesnít know how to dance this will be a great way to get her feet wet. Sign up for an hour of any kind of dance class; make sure to choose something that will be fun like a swing dance class. This is a great way to get up close and personal with your date.

2. Go Bungee Jumping: This is an awesome adrenaline junky dating idea! Especially if you both love the excitement of falling together (ask for double harness) and clinging onto each other. This is a great way to get close and feel each otherís heart pounding.

3. Jazz It Up: Go check out a local Jazz club and spend the night listening to instrumentals and sipping on drinks. This will be a sophisticated and relaxed night for you both.

4. Karaoke Bar: Looking to impress her with your vocal skills? Nothing gets better than hitting up the local Karaoke bar and showing her what you got. Plus, this is a great place for some much needed laughs after a week of stressful work.

5. Play Mini Golf: Great way to spend a nice sunny day outdoors with your date. Have a conversation with some laughs while you both are trying to impress each other with your putt putt skills.

Remember the point of going on dates is to get to know the person, enjoy their company, and just have fun!

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Flirtatious Questions Not To Ask

Who ever said there is no such thing as a dumb question, was not referring to the dating world! In fact, asking dumb questions when trying to get to know someone will likely get you turned away. While I was doing some research on dating advice I came across an article that recommend using these 10 flirtatious questions to attract mates. Well all I can say is NO NO NO! No way! These are some of the cheesiest lines out there. Now some of them are a little tricky and could be used if there is an actual genuine interest.
Example: “Where was that great photograph of you taken?” -This question is ok if you actually want to know. Maybe it was at a beach and the scenery was so nice you’d like to see it for yourself. But don’t just ask to ask. You’ll look lame!

Where did you get that fantastic smile? – (Aww obviously either I was born with it or the dentist had some part in it) There isn’t a real answer to this question. More then likely you’ll get a sarcastic one and conversation ends there.

  • Where was that great photograph of you taken? – Like I said if you actually care to know thats fine otherwise you can simply just give a compliment. (I really like the picture of you at the beach with the sunset in the back ground. It came out amazing…)
  • Where is the most romantic place that you’ve been on a date? – Hmm, I guess this one is alright. It’ll give you an idea of what they like and what they consider to be romantic.
  • How could you possibly be 45 when you look 30 in your picture? – A bit cheesy and sounds too much like another pick up line.
  • If you could go anywhere in the world for a romantic vacation, where would you go? – If you are a person who enjoys traveling and has an interest in knowing then this would be okay. If not then don’t use it cause you’ll be left with a daft look on your face not knowing what to say next.
  • What was your ex thinking when he/she let you go? – Ex’s are not a topic of conversation especially in the beginning. You may be opening an old wound that will bit you in the butt rather then help you.
  • What is your favorite ice cream flavor and why? – Sounds like a questionnaire. Now if you’re on your way to get some ice cream that’s another story but leave out the why.
  • What is your favorite color and why? – Again sounds like a questionnaire.
  • Should I pick you up in my Rolls or Benz? – You sound cocky/lame/flashy. What will make it even worse, is if you have neither.
  • So when are we going to make out? On the first date or the second date? (Depending on the person, you can sound cute using this one.) – You sound cocky and ignorant! Who the said you would get a date let alone a make out session???

Men please I beg of you stay away from the cheesy lines. Women don’t find them cute and they’ll only get you dissed or dismissed. Be yourself! Speak from the heart and speak the truth. There is no point in trying to be someone you’re not. The truth is bound to be revealed sooner or later.

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How To Dress For Dates

This could be tricky if you don’t know where you’re going. So, when you can, when it doesn’t seem rude and you can curiously ask where you going, just ask, so you can have a better idea of what to wear. Hopefully, he won’t say “it’s a surprise.” Most likely he won’t because people just really aren’t very romantic anymore.

However, things that may guide you are the time of day the date was set up to be. If your date is an afternoon date, definitely no cock tail dresses. In fact, some cool jeans and maybe heels with a nice top. Something you can wear basically anywhere and you don’t look over done but you still look real nice.

Another thing you can do is have about 3 outfits ready for your date. When your date arrives, greet him at the door in your robe, or boxers and t-shirt and depending on what he’s wearing you can more or less get a clue. Of course have your hair and make up ready, serve your date a drink and go get ready fast.

If he’s wearing a suit, you know he’s taking you to a nice place, so get your most expensive and pretty dress out. You might have to retouch make up if you were going for a more casual look. There is a way to bypass the whole make up retouch hold up. Wear make up that is gorgeous for any hour of the day. Simmering eye shadows that are not loud, brown lipsticks and a hint of blush…

Last but not least, if your having a breakfast date, you should cook up breakfast yourself and when he comes over surprise him with the yummy aroma in the air. This makes your breakfast date a lot more intimate. You should be dressed as you would normally at home, but polished off…Light makeup, a ponytail is always fun and flirty, your favorite worn out jeans and your fave band t-shirt.

Tune in to the Official Meet Locals Blog for more Dating advice!

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3 Things You Should Never Reveal On a First Date

First Dates can be horribly nerve wrecking, but you need to get yourself together and keep your cool. You need to be able to talk but don’t over talk. Sometimes women can go on a rampage in a nervous frenzy and ruin the date by revealing things that are really unnecessary.

Here are just 3 things yous should never reveal on a First Date:

  • 1. Don’t ever, ever say that you’re acting weird because you’re on your period. If indeed, your acting a bit weird and you feel like you have to say something just say you’re nervous. Guys don’t want to think about your period when their fantasizing about you and you don’t want to come off as neurotic and menstrual on your first date, Trust me if it goes well, you’ll have plenty of time to complain about cramps and be a psycho.
  • 2. Don’t talk about your ex-boyfriend and how he did you dirty. I don’t care if you just found out about your ex-boyfriend cheating on you yesterday, if you can’t shut up about it then you need a night out with the girls and not a night out with a potential prospect. Keep it together. If you’re an easy going drunk, maybe you should loosen up and maybe even fool around. You’ll be feeling better in no time...
  • 3. Don’t talk about work, even if your date asks you about work, keep it short. Just saying what you do for a living is enough and if you enjoy it lots or not so much. Don’t go into what a bitch your co-worker is or how your boss is an asshole from hell. Save it!

The point is that you want to talk about the fun things about yourself. You want your date to get to know all your cute and interesting personality traits before you let him into the dark side, especially on a first date. If you feel nervous just say it, most likely he feels nervous, too, and rather than being wordy and tapping into subjects not suitable for first dates you might end up consoling each other and helping each other stop being nervous. And that’s a much better scenario…Wouldn’t you agree?

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Stop The Excuses, Meet Locals In Your Area

The summer is here, the sun is shining yet your home alone. There’s something wrong with this picture, isn’t there?

Stop with all the excuses as to why you haven’t met anyone. With the internet dating world blowing up as fast as it has been, there’s simply no excuse. Meet Locals is a hot site, set up to connect you with others in your area. So whether you’re looking for friends, †a significant other or a just a fling rest assured there’s someone for you.

Seems that everyone from the girl next door to even celebrities are turning to internet dating to find companionship. No one wants to deal with the cheesy pickup lines and drunken mistakes these days. So Meet Locals gives you the opportunity to glimpse through profiles to view pictures, interests, desires and goals of others to see who appeals to you. Then you get to connect via the web, webcam or exchange numbers and take it from there. You get the opportunity to get to know a person before the date to exclude the blind date disasters.

Check out Meet Locals today and connect with hot, lonely locals in your area!

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3 Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Feel Special

Itís all about making your partner happy nowadays. Men love having their women give them compliments and make them feel special. There are some very simple ways you can accomplish this. Here are the 3 Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Feel Special:

1. Act jealous every so often. Not crazy jealous, but once in awhile do so (even if you are not the jealous type). It shows you care enough and donít want anyone else to have him.

2. If you catch someone checking him out, let him know. This will make him feel that he still got it. Donít do it too often because you donít want him to get overly confident.

3. Most men love working with power tools. Every once in awhile ask him to mount, fix, or hang something.

These are very simple ways to make him feel special. It is important in any relationship that both parties feel appreciated and special often. This is what makes the relationship strong and long lasting. Good luck!!!

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Tips For Women On How To Hook Up Your Adult Personal

If your going to start doing some adult online dating, your adult personal is crucial to your online dating success. You need to perceive your adult personal as yourself in a virtual form.

  • 1. Pictures.

You need to have a few pictures. I’m thinking somewhere between 4 to 6 pictures. Get creative and if you don’t have too many pictures of yourself, change outfits and take pictures in different rooms of the house or outside, in the car, etc. No one wants to check out a profile if it doesn’t have pictures and just one picture makes your adult personal seem bogus.

  • 2. Sexy Pictures.

You should include at least one sexy picture. I’m not saying you have to be naked, but maybe show off your curves or your amazing breasts in a spaghetti strap blouse that allows a little cleavage to show. If you’re going to do nudes, just be prepared for the attention you get. If you go all nude then this means you want raunchy attention. Men will be men especially if you give them incentive.

  • 3. Information.

Sadly, people don’t’ want to read much now a days, so make your information section short and sweet but include your main interests, where you are from and include anything you think is special about yourself…

  • 4. What Are You Looking For.

In this section you have the opportunity to jot down everything your looking for in a man. Don’t get too idealistic, because it’s childish and you should leave your day dreaming for some other time. Right now your trying to score, so be realistic when you describe what your looking for in a man. Examples include: Must have job, not married, lives in the area, no drugs etc…It all really depends on what you’re looking for.

These tips should set you off to a great beginning in the journey of online dating. As long as you include these things you should be ready to go. The most important thing is that you’ve put yourself out there, now you just have to reamin approachable and before you know it you’ll be chatting with tons of single men until you single one out.

Good Luck Ladies!

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