Should you keep things from your ex or things that remind you of your ex? It’s a pretty loaded question. Though very easy decipher if you really think about it. Depending on how long you were in the relationship is how you should decide what should go and not go. If you were in a long term relationship. I bet there’s a lot of things you got many together and had in common, so it’s kind of obvious that you probably don’t want to get rid of the newest additions to your music, movie or books.

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Naturally, if it’s a CD or mix tape that you’re ex made for you and it floods memories back- “Off with it’s head.” Basically, anything that’s an impaction, that brings back memories such as letters, notes, pictures, memorabilia of special or romantic get aways or vacations, you should most likely get rid of these. Perhaps, right at the beginning of  break up or a divorce it may be hard. But eventually, you need to get rid of the bilk of these things so you can really start seeing yourself as yourself alone and not in a relationship.

It’s a great step to leaving the past behind you. It gives you breathing and thinking space. A clean slate in short. Anyway,  why would you wan to keep a bunch of stuff that belong to you in another life? Relationships change and transform you. Sometimes for the best, sometimes for the worse but either way once it’s over a new life has begun and you need to let go of the past so you can do something special and meaningful with it.